As FemShep I'm fine with it, the idea of a heroic death is appealing to me, the other aspects of the ending are what annoy me and break my "bullshit" meter. It puts me in good company at least, finally get to just relax with Mordin and see him do a full scale production, see if Ashley was right, go swimming with Thane, and see the rest of my company from Akuze again. As MShep, really, I feel like Jack would go fucking nuts trying to rescue me, and either die trying, or fail and kill herself in the aftermath, either by degrees and recklessness or more actively. In which case there goes my Shep too. And really, the chances of survival were extremely slim, makes very little sense to survive based on the situation after reaching the Citadel, regardless of the rest of it.
Really, Kasumi. But unfortunately she's not an option Miranda is a bit too much of a bitch to the rest of the crew, and Liara is vindictive whenever the others tease her, and a little too... mystical, alright as a friend, but not so great as a date. Tali is pretty cool, but she's so innocent and young seeming that it feels too weird. And I LOVE Garrus/Tali! Great couple So I've gone with Samara as second choice as far as romance goes. But total ranking is Jack>Kasumi>Tali>Liara>Kelly>Samara>Miranda>Morinth.